Rumors Flying Around!

Face it. You've been involved in rumors before. Almost every human being has. Now, here's the difference: some of you have chosen to ignore it and let it pass, rumor being true or not, and some of you have chosen to either: A. confront the person who started it, in private or public, casually slip up the rumor and confront it. B. Same scenario but you just yell and scream and possibly rearrange the person's face. and/or C. Calmly ask them why they did it.

But you know what really hurts? Is when you think you know a person, and they seem like your best friend, but then they go deliberately behind your back and stab it, it really hurts. And maybe you're just a nice person and you let it slide, believing in the "benefit of the doubt" crap. But then the friend does it again. What do you do?

Confront the person? But then what? You lose a friend either way.

Rearrange the person's face? That won't really get you anywhere really... maybe possibly to an anger management class.

Calmly question their reasons behind their psychotic logic? I mean, it's almost the same as confronting the person...

All in all, what should you do? Especially if this person is known for making up rumors about tons of people, even their own friends... Let it slide or confront.. to be or not to be, that is the question. rearrange or slide..

I think I might do some confrontation... possibly rearranging, verbally that is. Don't worry, I'm not crazy enough to smack the crap out of the stupid chick. maybe I'm just a little mental for thinking it :P